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Anonymous: Is it normal that im turning 17 in 18 days and I still haven't kissed a boy. Like I wouldn't say that I'm ugly so I don't really understand why boys don't like me. But... Is it normal?

Yes, its completely normal. You haven’t had your first kiss yet and when you do it will be so special. It will be so worth the wait c:

Posted 3 months ago

Anonymous: My boyfriend is really controlling....he doesn't let me drink just because it's not recommended w/ my meds... he said if I did there would be consequences for me (he wouldn't tell me what)... but he is so careless with his drinking and even told me he doesn't even care if he overdoses on alcohol/drugs. I can't help but feel angry that he's being selfish... he knows that if he died my mental illness would increase SO MUCH i'd have to be admitted for a long time. I don't know what to do :(

From what you told me, it sounds like you’re in a abusive relationship. I suggest you seek help immediately. It’s not fair that he treats you like that. You deserve respect.

Posted 3 months ago

Anonymous: I'm really scared I'm getting depressed again and I don't think it's something I can handle again but every day my mom screams at me and tells me I'm selfish for being absorbed in my own problems and not caring about the people around me who have it much worse and there's just nothing I can do and I don't really know what i'm asking I just wanted to get it off my chest.

Your mom doesn’t understand depression. She doesn’t understand how just because some people have it worse, it doesn’t mean that your problems aren’t important. At this point talk to your friends, family or somebody who you trust about how you’re feeling and go on from there. You’re beautiful and I’m sorry about your mom.

Posted 4 months ago

Anonymous: so once i asked you how to approach my parents about wanting a therapist and you said to start with my school counselor and ask for advice, and i did. i've never once spoken of the constant internal conflict i'm having with myself so i got emotional. now that it's all out there and my parents know, they're gonna try and help me by getting counseling. i just wanted to thank you so so so so much! if i never came to your blog, i never would have done anything & continued to suffer. it means a lot<3

This is so sweet, this made me smile. Good luck with everything

Posted 4 months ago

Anonymous: I love this girl, she lives in canada and she was so sweet to me, but at the time i was confused and scared for what i wanted, we still talk now and i tell her how much i love her and she says the same,but I know she's been seriously hurt. Do you think I should keep trying for her, or give it a rest and let her be?

I think you should keep going for her, show her how much you love her.

Posted 4 months ago

Anonymous: what is your opinion on guys judging girls during sex? sorry if thats a weird question but um just wondering what your thoughts are on that. like i feel like a lot of girls have a fear of guys comparing them to others girls that they have slept with in the past.

Honestly, I don’t believe guys actually compare girls to other girls during sex. if they do, only on a small level. This was an interesting question though, thank you

Posted 4 months ago

Anonymous: I fell in love with this girl who lives over 4,000 miles away from me. Even though we don't talk much anymore I don't think my feelings will ever stop. What the fuck do I do.

Time heals everything. Allow new people into your life and I promise your feelings will change.

Posted 4 months ago with 1 note

Anonymous: About two years ago I met this guy. He is absolutely amazing and he takes my breath away. We started dating and were together for a year and two months,but just 5 months ago, we broke up. I sometimes still cry. But after a while I met someone else, and so did he. When we broke up we both agreed to date other people. Two months later him and his girlfriend broke up. And he came to me and told me he still loved me. I told him I would always love him. Now he's ignoring me again.. What should I do?

I think the both of you should sit down and talk about how you feel about each other. Because he might be lonely, and you don’t want him using you ect. It will be hard to talk to him, but it’s better then silly mind games. Let me know how it goes my love

Posted 4 months ago

Anonymous: So I'm bisexual and this is probably going to sound really dumb but I just need advice on this because I know you know and I feel comfy asking you, I'm a girl and I just don't no what to do with a girl to fuck her....:/

So I guess you’re basically asking me how to make love to a girl? Well you can do many things. You can kiss her passionately, you can finger her, eat her out, “scissor her” whatever you both feel comfortable doing.

Posted 4 months ago

Anonymous: i've been talking to this guy for about a month and a half. he's really nice and we get along pretty well. he asked me to be his girlfriend about a week after we started talking and i told him i wanted to hang out and get to know him better, but that i did like him. now that i've gotten to know him a little better, i feel like i kind of forced myself into thinking i liked him and i'm not sure i really do anymore. i want to tell him and i know i need to tell him but i feel so bad for cont.

Posted 4 months ago